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Hey guys. Here's some pics of me from the pst few weeks. I'v..

Hey guys. Here's some pics of me from the pst few weeks. I've been working on leaning up. Since August, I have dropped from 205 down to 189 lbs. Once I get below 10%bf, I will work on getting bigger again. I'm probably around 13% right now -- I got measured a few weeks ago by the Dexa Scan (supposedly the most accurate) at around14.5%. I've lost about 5 lbs since then, but seem to be doing a good job not losing too much muscle mass. Excited to see how things keep evolving!

2023-10-17 02:22:53 +0000 UTC View Post

Many of us are disconnected from our bodies. It’s a process ..

Many of us are disconnected from our bodies. It’s a process and a journey to become “embodied” — to root ourselves back into our physical selves. Tonight, I lead us in a practice to do just that.

2023-10-15 02:52:57 +0000 UTC View Post

Even when you're home sick and on antibiotics doesn't mean y..

Even when you're home sick and on antibiotics doesn't mean you still can't have a little fun. It's important to always remember that our quality of life is independent of what's going on around us. If you can find joy within you... you can even be as ill/suffering, and still be having a great time.

2023-10-13 03:17:24 +0000 UTC View Post

https://youtu.be/jzYMdFtWFRk Hey guys...went to the doctor ..

https://youtu.be/jzYMdFtWFRk Hey guys...went to the doctor today, and have been a little out of it. Tonight, we are exploring a more meditative side to self-love. This will go live on YouTube later, but I wanted you to see this first. It's a reflection on seeing the perfection in our imperfections. Seeing our whole body and nature as sacred. I am linking some older videos from way back on OnlyFans that tie in with this idea. I hope that you enjoy!

2023-10-12 03:59:17 +0000 UTC View Post

Hey guys. Meant to post tonight but ended up in urgent care ..

Hey guys. Meant to post tonight but ended up in urgent care struggling to breathe. Hope to be okay tomorrow. See you soon!

2023-10-11 03:34:37 +0000 UTC View Post

Someone asked me to talk about my journey with cultivating c..

Someone asked me to talk about my journey with cultivating confidence. I decided that it would make a great YouTube video... but on there, are I am going to have to censor the nudity. Here...you get to see EVERYTHING! I hope that you enjoy :)

2023-10-09 01:19:30 +0000 UTC View Post

Part III (Final part) of my cam show from this past week. I ..

Part III (Final part) of my cam show from this past week. I hope you had a great time too :)

2023-10-06 22:05:20 +0000 UTC View Post

Part II of my cam session that I posted about recently :)

2023-10-06 03:04:56 +0000 UTC View Post

Tonight I did something that I do on a rare occasion... I lo..

Tonight I did something that I do on a rare occasion... I logged online and pleasured myself for whomever wished to watch. I enjoy the exhibitionism; I enjoy the rejection of shame that society has taught us to have around our sexuality and our bodies. I enjoy interacting with people, being silly, being authentic, being erotic. I enjoy the experience of feeling fully human and connecting with other humans through this body I have been gifted. Tonight, I am posting part I of the show. I will post the subsequent parts in quick succession. I hope you enjoy as much as I did. While you cannot read the comments people are leaving, I do read them aloud so you can fully join in on the experience. Blessings and light, Kaelan :)

2023-10-04 04:07:01 +0000 UTC View Post

Sex doesn’t need to look a certain way. One of the things ..

Sex doesn’t need to look a certain way. One of the things I love about mine and hubby’s sex life is that it’s always unique. Tonight, he asked if I would put on a private show for him while he jerked off. I stroked and flexed for him. He fingered me and gave me a prostate orgasm. And when he came, I swallowed his load. This is love. This is what it means to be an ever-changing, ever-evolving person in a relationship. There’s no right or wrong way to make love.

2023-10-01 23:17:20 +0000 UTC View Post

So many of us get caught up in comparing ourselves with othe..

So many of us get caught up in comparing ourselves with others: this person has such a good body, they're so popular, they're so talented, etc. But this really robs us of our joy. There is ALWAYS other people who are more _____. This is something I struggle with. So I thought tonight's nude meditation might be helpful for anyone struggling with similar feelings.

2023-09-28 03:21:14 +0000 UTC View Post

Tomorrow, on Youtube, I am doing a video where I answer what..

Tomorrow, on Youtube, I am doing a video where I answer whatever questions my followers want to ask of me. Why don't we do the same thing here? I will create a video answering all of your questions. Make them good! :)

2023-09-26 23:34:15 +0000 UTC View Post

Sorry for the delay... here's the censored version of hubby ..

Sorry for the delay... here's the censored version of hubby and I reuniting after his absence. It's so good to reconnect. It's so wonderful to feel loved, cherished and part of something bigger than ourselves. I hope that you enjoy! Just a reminder that these videos are always available uncensored via DM.

2023-09-26 02:59:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Hubby has been away, and I have missed him terribly. The joy..

Hubby has been away, and I have missed him terribly. The joy in reconnecting is almost worth the absence. …almost. ;) Happy to share the full video of us rediscovering one another in a few hours xoxo

2023-09-23 21:05:12 +0000 UTC View Post

Join me this morning for some self-loving time 🙏🏼💦

2023-09-21 16:11:35 +0000 UTC View Post

I know we have been talking about the topic of bottoming top..

I know we have been talking about the topic of bottoming topic a lot...so I thought you would appreciate this edited video on the topic (that I posted on YT). It covers similar points to what I posted a week or two ago, but this one is YouTube friendly lol. I appreciate hearing how this topic resonates for you. Don't forget that the nude version is a few posts back...

2023-09-19 18:07:04 +0000 UTC View Post

I thought it’d be fun to see the process I go through to mak..

I thought it’d be fun to see the process I go through to make the photos I want to share with y’all. 1. I take a bunch of selfies on a tripod or with my phone leaned up against something. I usually don’t have anyone help me — it’s just me and my camera. 2. Since the photos are done as a group in quick succession, I’ll scroll through and see which one I like best. 3. Sometimes I’ll just use the filters built in with the iPhone photos ap. The “warm dramatic” tends to be my go-to. 4. A lot of times, I’ll export the picture to a photo editing app to make more fine-tuned adjustments and add more lighting/depth. The photo at the end of the video was exported to Photoleap for more refinement before I finished and posted it online. I usually take around 7-8 pics to find one that I want to use. What do you think??

2023-09-18 14:13:07 +0000 UTC View Post

Make love...to yourself :)

2023-09-16 01:53:01 +0000 UTC View Post

My journey with bottoming part 2... Continuing on from my l..

My journey with bottoming part 2... Continuing on from my last post.

2023-09-13 12:16:06 +0000 UTC View Post

How I learned to bottom for my husband... Part 1 Many of yo..

How I learned to bottom for my husband... Part 1 Many of you have asked how I learned to be a good bottom for my partner. Today, I share the story behind opening up my behind ;P

2023-09-12 19:50:38 +0000 UTC View Post

Here's the full video of me and hubby making love. I am so p..

Here's the full video of me and hubby making love. I am so proud of my burgeoning ability to bottom for him. The ability hasn't just been physical -- it's been emotional and spiritual. I will discuss it in my next video. xox

2023-09-11 03:04:11 +0000 UTC View Post

Let's compare the last video I posted with my husband fuckin..

Let's compare the last video I posted with my husband fucking me this afternoon. I have gotten SO MUCH better at bottoming and receiving him. Full video posted tomorrow!

2023-09-09 21:05:21 +0000 UTC View Post

It's been fun to see the progress I've made with bottoming. ..

It's been fun to see the progress I've made with bottoming. Anal play is not something that has ever come easy for me. This video was shot in February...so roughly 6 months ago. Since then, I've gotten a lot better at learning to relax, trust, and enjoy my husband's body penetrating mine. I hadn't posted the full censored video back then...only a short preview. So, I am doing so now. As always, the uncensored version is available via DM. Lots of love to you all! Hope you are finding beautiful connection in your lives.

2023-09-08 03:48:47 +0000 UTC View Post