

Rewatching this clip is so annoying for Me. The slave is inc..
Added 2020-10-13 15:23:21 +0000 UTCRewatching this clip is so annoying for Me. The slave is incredibly slow at completing the simple task of changing My socks, not only because it is inept and lacks dexterity, but also because it is forcibly and repeatedly trying to kiss My feet when I told it not to. This is completely inappropriate not just in a D/s situation where the slave is supposed to follow the commands of its Superior, but in any context involving two individuals. If a Woman indicates She does not want to be touched, a man should not touch Her, and vice versa. Full stop. Notice how many times this loser still went in to kiss My feet and My legs despite Me telling it to stop. It was as though it felt it had some sort of right to do so. Not seen in the clips, the loser also had a very, very bad staring problem and would also not adhere to My command to stop talking. On the first day I allowed the conversation and consistent eye contact as we were getting to know each other (although I should note that I am being gratuitous in calling it 'consistent eye contact'... it was full-on staring). For this second interaction, I made it very clear that it needs to keep its eyes on the road and stop staring at Me. I even explained that staring feels very invasive. I also told it to stop talking as I wanted silence to focus on the more important task of organizing accommodation for Miami with My Florida subs. Yet, it kept staring and kept talking to Me, a situation that eventually culminated to a point where it was kissing Me when I told it to stop. Very problematic. //////////////////////////////////////////////////// And no, this was not an "understandable" or "can you really blame him?" situation. I do not care how nice My feet are, how beautiful I am, and how out of control I can make a sub feel. Every human on this planet has a responsibility to control their own behaviours regardless of the erotic stimuli presented in front of them. Think of it this way: Consider the hypothetical situation where you have been invited to a dinner party by someone you just met, and you arrive to the party very hungry. Do you act on your hunger urges and enter the host's fridge and pantry and start feeding yourself? No. A respectful guest will wait patiently until appetizers or dinner are served, or respectfully ask the host for a light snack to stave off the hunger if it is that unbearable. It doesn't matter how good dinner smells or how long you've gone without eating (unless you're literally starving to death, of course). You don't invade a person's kitchen and bypass all the social rules around eating at a time determined by the person gracious enough to host you. The same principle applies to sexual urges as it does to those of hunger, and arguably even more so given the invasion is occurring on someone's body and not their kitchen. I as such find it wild that this grown man does not grasp the fundamentals of consent. Don't be this guy. It cost it the opportunity to serve Me again, because the work ahead of Me to make it an even moderately acceptable slave would be to reprogram its principles (which are the result of a lifetime of experience and active adhesion to a particular ideas of what constitutes acceptable behaviour with Women). If this loser refuses to stop kissing My feet in a public setting, do you think it is going to start demonstrating control in the private confines of My home when I am alone, wearing far less clothing, and allowing it to massage lotion over My body? Likely not. Incidentally, I would wager the only time this slave would show appropriate constraint and deference is in the presence of My boyfriend, which says a lot about where it allocates respect. ///////////////////////////////////////////////////////// Of course, part of its misbehaviour was likely rooted in its desire to provoke an aggressive response from Me. Once in a while I do come across the 'bratty' or 'rascal' sub type that break rules because they desire to be punished. But anyone who has read My OnlyFans posts can see that this is not My brand. I like My slaves disciplined, stoic, and invisible, not antagonistic, facetious, and provocative. Further, I am happy to train new slaves on the more instrumental specifics required for serving Me (such as how I want to be addressed, how My clothes should be folded, how My feet should be massaged). But I have no interest in the daunting task of de-programming a person's principles and teaching Respect 101. To serve Me, you need to come equipped with these basics. Luckily, I don't have have this problem often as I am mostly approached by true subs or at least men who respect boundaries. But if any part of you feels defensive in reading this post, you're likely one of the problematic ones.